Random thoughts of a transgender Girl

Hey, Im Runa Snow, (yes, that is my chosen name), im transgender, pansexual, demisexual. I'm a gamer, a bit of a writer, I may be Wiccan.

klatchian:

elierlick:

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Brianna Ghey had family support, friends, and a popular TikTok account. These support systems are crucial but even they can’t withstand the cruel, public attacks on trans livelihood. These “debates” over our humanity have deadly consequences.

Brianna rightfully holds significant media attention during this troubled time. But she was not the only trans teen killed recently. Just in the U.S., Ariyanna Mitchell, Katie Newhouse, and trans siblings Jeffrey “JJ” Bright and Jasmine Cannady - all trans youth of color - lost their lives to violence. Every one of their names should be remembered in the fight to end trans dehumanization.

and remember “palmiye” deniz, a 45 year old trans woman who froze to death this week in istanbul because she could not access housing or healthcare

(via vaginadude)

yourbigsisnissi:

A part of being an adult is living with regret and not allowing it to consume you. The older you get, the more mistakes you’ve made, opportunities you’ve missed, people you’ve disappointed. And every day you have to remind yourself to be kind and forgiving of yourself. You accept and love the you from the past and understand that it’s all a part of the process. Then you move on and live your best life, knowing now as old as you feel today, you’ll never be this young again.

(via softly-submissive-sweetheart)

jukeboxemcsa:

my-sweet-darlings:

I probably wouldn’t be that great at training a sub because whenever I see a really cute, sweet-hearted, subby dude, I just wanna pet his hair and kiss his face all over and tell him what a good boy he is over and over

This is not a wrong way to Domme.

Seriously. Being dominant does not mean being harsh. You can be a top who constantly praises and pampers and rewards your pet for good behavior, and you’re still being Dominant.

Spread the word.

(via not-so-gentle-femdom)

ifcrueltyhadaname:
“ rooftopasian:
“ its-bewitched:
“ the-darkest-of-souls:
“ robb-greyjoy:
“ thekutestkillua:
“ comcastkills:
“ lesbianrey:
“if you click to open this thread you die in real life
”
predicted answer: “have sex with me” ”
I read this...

ifcrueltyhadaname:

rooftopasian:

its-bewitched:

the-darkest-of-souls:

robb-greyjoy:

thekutestkillua:

comcastkills:

lesbianrey:

if you click to open this thread you die in real life

predicted answer: “have sex with me”

I read this thread and it’s surprisingly wholesome. Lots of guys either wanting to be the little spoon, making jokes about blanket hogging, or wanting their girlfriends to say what they like so that they can pleasure them more.

Tbh I’m starting to think most of tumblr seriously lack any serious interaction with men, and not only sexual but to a platonic/friendship level.

I don’t mean to attack anyone but how come all this people decided men would think something pervert and rapey? How come people who actually checked were so surprised that men wanted something humanly acceptable and maybe even *gasps* cute?

I am serious in this question: did you ever had male friends? Because this thread to me was the LEAST surprising thing on earth.

In HS, having been a butch lesbian and having had a ton of male friends, the typical sex questions were “hey, can you tell me how to mae her feel good?” or “hey, how do I tell if she likes it?” or “do I sound clingy/pathetic if I want cuddles after?”. Boyfriends worry about their girlfriends pleasure, their happiness and what they think of sex. They do. And when they don’t do much to pleasure them, most of the time is because they are inexperienced. Women do have a problem with communicating their desire, nobody denies that it’s also society’s fault but if you don’t ask stuff you can’t get surprised you don’t get it and out there it’s full of men wanting to do things with respect and to make their girlfriends happy. 

Boys are WHOLESOME. As girls are. People are wholesome and nice and vulnerable and in strive for good things for them and others.

And even those who made sexual comments like “blowjobs” or “more boob stuff”…. why is it bad? It’s a NSFW thread???? It’s the space to talk about that. Would you have the same reaction if in their matching thread women said they want their boyfriends to go down on them more? Or if they said they’d like him to touch them in different zones? Would you have complained if women said it of their girlfriends? Then why shaming boys?

Having needs both sexual and emotional is natural, the important is not force them on people who don’t feel like that and these men didn’t (which is why the thread exists in first place).

Men have emotional needs too and pretending they don’t and buying into the “all men think about is sex” and “ah men are all rapey and dirty” is sexism, not only towards men but because it implies that women are purer than them which leads to the HolyMary kinda misoginy that denies women their need to physical pleasure.

Also let’s stop pretending sex is inherently dirty and bad. Sex is fun, as long as it’s consensual.

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But yeah I agree with op, I did die opening it, OUT OF THE CUTENESS THAT SPILLED FROM IT.

Ok yeah that was cute

Aw I want this.

posts with bad vibes being turned into more comfy things like this are why i still browse this site

The cuteness of men is, as always, ignored and taken for granted.

(via not-so-gentle-femdom)

not-so-gentle-femdom:
“theamazingsallyhogan:
“ wannabeanimator:
“ Disney’s Treasure Planet was first released on November 27, 2002.
“ Disney’s biggest financial loss. Total cost: $180 million (including $40 million for advertising). Total worldwide... not-so-gentle-femdom:
“theamazingsallyhogan:
“ wannabeanimator:
“ Disney’s Treasure Planet was first released on November 27, 2002.
“ Disney’s biggest financial loss. Total cost: $180 million (including $40 million for advertising). Total worldwide...

not-so-gentle-femdom:

theamazingsallyhogan:

wannabeanimator:

Disney’s Treasure Planet was first released on November 27, 2002.

Disney’s biggest financial loss. Total cost: $180 million (including $40 million for advertising). Total worldwide gross: $101 million. Total loss: $79 million. (IMDb)

They kneecapped a damn treasure. Botched the marketing then released it when Harry Potter and Santa Clause 2 (Disney’s own movie!) were in theaters. The sequel would’ve been so amazing.
This was a tragedy.

Go watch Treasure Planet, you won’t regret it.

everytime im asked, this is hands down my favorite movie

westafricanbaby:
“ mountain-mystic:
“ alwaysbewoke:
“ dangerouslypleasantvictuuri:
“ pinkgliitter:
“ malefica-3791:
“ cisnowflake:
“ itsfinisyo:
“ alwaysbewoke:
“ memoirsofaimperfectblackgirl:
“ anomaly1:
“ old-school-shit:
“Being crazy ain’t ok.
”...

westafricanbaby:

mountain-mystic:

alwaysbewoke:

dangerouslypleasantvictuuri:

pinkgliitter:

malefica-3791:

cisnowflake:

itsfinisyo:

alwaysbewoke:

memoirsofaimperfectblackgirl:

anomaly1:

old-school-shit:

Being crazy ain’t ok.

^^^

verbally abusing your boyfriend is not ok. Manipulating your significant other to get what you want is not ok.

^^^^^^

Being controlling and not seeing it isn’t okay

I’m happy to see this is actually getting notes.

^^^

I’m a woman, I don’t have the right to be an abusive bitch just because of my anatomy.

Going through his phone, calling him when he’s out with his friends or just out, not giving him space alladet

fyi, if we were talking about a man, all of these comments would be about leaving his ass. If your gf is doing ANY of these things. LEAVE her. You don’t deserve it.

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KEEP THIS GOING!

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(via not-so-gentle-femdom)

misangremellama:

panda-pear:

misangremellama:

Reminder for parents that though you may be struggling, it is never appropriate to use your child as your therapist/counselor. It’s unhealthy for the both of you. 

Can I ask why? I’m genuinely curious

There’s a few reasons as to why its wrong.

For one, a kid is not equipped to handle a parent’s problems. I’m not saying to never express your feelings or say that you’re having a problem to a child. That can be healthy. But to use them to just dump on is too much. Children just aren’t equipped to deal with the heaviness of adult problems, especially if they’re already going through things themselves.

Two, the inherent power imbalance makes it really uncomfortable. Your child isn’t your friend, they’re your child. Even if they can offer advice, this sort of thing can become like a role reversal. They also would have a hard time separating themselves from it when it becomes too much. A lot of parents feel entitled to their childrens’ time and space, so the children can become overburdened with no reprieve and no way to express that this isn’t their job. 

There’s probably more and better ways to explain this, but that’s my two cents on this.

(via not-so-gentle-femdom)

Hey look, actual “unique” questions

not-so-gentle-femdom:

1: Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?

2: Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?

3: Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?

4: Have you ever stolen a street sign before?

5: Do you like to use post-it notes?

6: Do you cut out coupons but then never use them?

7: Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees?

8: Do you have freckles?

9: Do you always smile for pictures?

10: What is your biggest pet peeve?

11: Do you ever count your steps when you walk?

12: Have you ever peed in the woods?

13: What about pooped in the woods?

14: Do you ever dance even if theres no music playing?

15: Do you chew your pens and pencils?

16: How many people have you slept with this week?

17: What size is your bed?

18: What is your Song of the week?

19: Is it okay for guys to wear pink?

20: Do you still watch cartoons?

21: Whats your least favorite movie?

22: Where would you bury hidden treasure if you had some?

23: If you’re a girl, bra size? If you’re a guy, pants size?

24: What do you dip a chicken nugget in?

25: What is your favorite food?

26: What movies could you watch over and over and still love?

27: Last person you kissed/kissed you?

28: Were you ever a boy/girl scout?

29: Would you ever strip or pose nude in a magazine?

30: When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper?

31: Can you change the oil on a car?

32: Ever gotten a speeding ticket?

33: Ever ran out of gas?

34: Favorite kind of sandwich?

35: Best thing to eat for breakfast?

36: What is your usual bedtime?

37: Are you lazy?

38: When you were a kid, what did you dress up as for Halloween?

39: What is your Chinese astrological sign?

40: Are you horny?

41: Do you have any magazine subscriptions?

42: Which are better legos or lincoln logs?

43: Are you stubborn?

44: Who is better…Leno or Letterman?

45: Ever watch soap operas?

46: Are you afraid of heights?

47: Do you sing in the car?

48: Do you sing in the shower?

49: Do you dance in the car?

50: Ever used a gun?

51: Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?

52: Do you think musicals are cheesy?

53: Is Christmas stressful?

54: Ever eat a pierogi?

55: Favorite type of fruit pie?

56: Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?

57: Do you believe in ghosts?

58: Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?

59: Take a vitamin daily?

60: Wear slippers?

61: Wear a bath robe?

62: What do you wear to bed?

63: First concert?

64: Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?

65: Nike or Adidas?

66: Cheetos Or Fritos?

67: Peanuts or Sunflower seeds?

68: Ever hear of the group Tres Bien?

69: Ever take dance lessons?

70: Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing?

71: Can you curl your tongue?

72: Ever won a spelling bee?

73: Have you ever cried because you were so happy?

74: Own any record albums?

75: Own a record player?

76: Regularly burn incense?

77: Ever been in love?

78: Who would you like to see in concert?

79: What was the last concert you saw?

80: Hot tea or cold tea?

81: Tea or coffee?

82: Sugar or snickerdoodles?

83: Can you swim well?

84: Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?

85: Are you patient?

86: DJ or band, at a wedding?

87: Ever won a contest?

88: Ever have plastic surgery?

89: Which are better black or green olives?

90: Can you knit or crochet?

91: Best room for a fireplace?

92: Do you want to get married?

93: If married, how long have you been married?

94: Who was your HS crush?

95: Do you cry and throw a fit until you get your own way?

96: Do you have kids?

97: Do you want kids?

98: Whats your favorite color?

99: Do you miss anyone right now?